I Know You Love Me and You Know I Love You

Our concepts of love are outdated and ineffective. We are taught a conditional way of behaving with ourselves and others, which feels painful, and produces a state of malnourishment. Love, as science is beginning to learn, is a nourishment, and therefore must be embraced, given and received, as we would air, food, and water. Today human beings behave as do hungry, starving people - desperate for love, willing to lie to get it and willing to put up with unloving behaviors fro others and themselves. There is no Relationship School that we can attend that will help us keep our relationships as exciting and vital as they are when we're engaged or about to be married. Most couples who have been married for a while are beginning to realize that they need some skills and tools to help them deal with in-laws, discussing money, handling child care issues, and other difficulties they experience. Generally couples handle these issues by (1) ignoring them and hoping they will disappear, or (2) letting them build up until someone explodes with angry feelings. This leads to distancing yourselves from each other or angry, hurt feelings. We will teach you how to approach each other and express your feelings in a loving and thoughtful way that brings you both to a resolution of the problem. Our method will help you feel like you did when you were early on in the relationship - where everything felt perfect. We have developed a sequential and integrated method of human development - starting with awareness, then vision, using both to frame effective communications. At the heart of this method is the knowledge and understanding for the necessity of leading with unconditional behaviors.